Mental Repository (M.R.)

[iraya-sama]

Damnit Reddit why do you always have to make so much sense >_<
http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/commen...ly/c36abo9

(Topic is about geeky guys being whiny about women)

stealing link and posting on FB. i can relate a lot to this thread XD

read this guys -its a reply to all whiny men in general because in the base part of everything its chauvinism

http://yesmeansyesblog.wordpress.com/201...he-answer/

& a longer & more detailed explanaition

http://tigerbeatdown.com/2011/08/29/chro...s-of-doom/

its a good read. like seriously
and this quote form the link from Sforza's post:
'Don't worry so much about the woman's subjective experience to you. Don't worry about doing the right thing or mainting this pesona for their bennefit. Behave the way you want to behave, with sweetness and kindness, and vulnerability and timidness, and playfulness and humor, and hurt and even a little cruelty. Feel free to get hurt and embarassed. Feel free to hurt her and to enjoy her.'

-- i just sounds so wrong. as a girl..it sounds wrong somehow. enjoy her? is she a thing to be enjoyed or worse, hurt? isn't approaching someone supposed to be out of love & respect not out of a need to kill loneliness? 'Don't worry so much about the woman's subjective experience to you? - as a human being YOU SHOULD VERY WELL WORRY- because a girl is also a human being, her experiences, previous & present will affect everything she does just as much as a man's experiences will.

just..so much feelings on this topic. like seriously.