11-12-2010, 09:08 AM
(11-11-2010, 11:21 PM)Twin-Skies Wrote: Rant 1: Mom's being a bitch again. Yells at me for not finding sis' birth certificates. And once again, all she's doing is editing her pictures from ICA, and playing Farmville. Damn it, I really, REALLY hope her crops wither and die, or that she at least gets paid by the school for her photos. As it stands, we're the ones who have to spend money just to buy those damn DVDs she uses the pics to burn the pics into.
Rant 2: Yells at me for asking her questions about her laptop when she asks me to check why she's running low on memory. I snap back out of annoyance since she was yelling at me for missing the certificates in our files earlier, which apparently to her is enough reason to start throwing objects around, and telling me I should leave the house.
Like she's the only one who has a right to get angry - Her answer to almost every little thing is always throwing a tantrum and throwing the closest objects, and calling everybody else useless except for herself.
I don't get it - I get yelled at for refusing to help her with the laptop, I get yelled at for honestly saying I don't know, because I'm not a programmer or computer engineer, and I get yelled at for taking too long to fix her laptop.
Calls me useless, and says it's because I talk back to her like that that I'm always losing jobs. That's below the belt.
Then she hits me with her bag - which felt like it was carrying her heavy SLR cameras at the time - because I was checking on her external HD since it wasn't working properly, and yelling at me to stay away from her computer.
At the very least, I just wish I could talk to some sort of counselor to help me sort this personal problem out. As selfish as it sounds, I think I deserve a better mom than the woman who sits downstairs the whole day, playing Farmville until the wee hours of the morning, and half the time is rambling with her unsolicited advice and woefully misinformed opinions and her Noynoy fangirlism.
This is one of those days that I truly wish I could just curl up and cry.
While I don't have much info about your family background, have you tried talking to you father about it? Don't know if it'll help, but it might be worth a try. Assuming you haven't, of course.
Or if you can, leave the house. Like what the others said, it makes relationships work better for some reason. Personally, me being a bitter person, I'd probably just live somewhere else as soon as I can sustain myself with a good job and forget about going in touch with family if that ever happened to me.
For now, just try to bear with it until you can leave. That's probably the best thing to do for now.
