(10-20-2012, 09:29 AM)zero_kanipan Wrote: do i still greet her in the morning out of courtesy?
how about small talk?
or do i just stop all communications (unless required by my job)?
- My vote is for stop all communication unless required. If she's willing to communicate again I think she should be first. She doesn't literally need to talk to you first, just watch for body language and subtle hints.
It really depends on the situation. If she still seems to be "naiilang", then give her (a ton of) space. It'll do you both some good.
Quote:for those who have been in a similar situation, how long does it take for things to cool down?
It depends. With my ex we went through this destructive cycle of FIGHT then make up after 2 days, FIGHT again the next week, then peace again, etc. At least we were always willing to talk. Some couples I'd imagine would just fight and never talk again.
I just hope she doesn't feel 気持ち悪い (kimochi warui) towards you because that would be the end of everything
