07-03-2008, 08:08 PM
Who are the people in your way? How are they in the way?
The family? You can always hide the relationship from them like many couples do. I don't recommend it though.
Rumors: Clear it up with her. If she doesn't believe you, then pursuing her isn't worth it.
Feelings for her friend: If you're serious about getting back together with your ex, just drop this idea altogether.
Weigh your pros and cons. If you think she really is worth it, then by all means, try to get her back.
The family? You can always hide the relationship from them like many couples do. I don't recommend it though.
Rumors: Clear it up with her. If she doesn't believe you, then pursuing her isn't worth it.
Feelings for her friend: If you're serious about getting back together with your ex, just drop this idea altogether.
Weigh your pros and cons. If you think she really is worth it, then by all means, try to get her back.