06-25-2008, 02:13 AM
theGrim Wrote:Shits and giggles aside, if you're being honest with yourself that being friends is really all you want, then you probably did make the right choice. But if on some deep, dark level of a woman even God or Ron Hubbard doesn't even know about you secretly covet his... money, then I dunno, maybe try being friends with benefits if you're comfortable with that. Or not. Whatever, it's your life.
Somehow, I wound up more confused that you at reading my advice.
Funny you mentioned that, since we've been flirting with each other for goodness knows how long already. We've gone out on dates and vacations as "friends", and he's even put a significant career decision on hold out of consideration for me. I've always drawn the line at money, though. I never let him pay for anything that concerns the both of us and I've never let myself owe him anything either.
Definitely friends with benefits!