What did you learn today?

[Zefyr]

^Refer to previous post.

I think by 'hilingin' he would be asking the family about it, and if the two of them were already together beforehand, then it wouldn't really be stealing from someone who was already in a relationship. Even if they weren't together and the guy still asks, the girl can refuse.

I don't really think it's a hush-hush deal, it's a pretty nice thing actually if you want to become a pastor. Also, the term my parents used was 'usually' the woman doesn't work. I don't know if that means she could if she wanted, but yeah.

I think I was just reacting to the 'it's considered taboo to refuse'. We're a decent folk. We don't do arranged marriages anymore